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Friday, August 28, 2009

FOR WE WALK BY FAITH, NOT BY SIGHT

Nice little story I found.

One day a 6 year old girl was sitting in a classroom. The teacher was going to explain evolution to the children. The teacher asked a little boy: Tommy do you see the tree outside?

TOMMY: Yes.
TEACHER: Tommy, do you see the grass outside?
TOMMY: Yes.
TEACHER: Go outside and look up and see if you can see the sky.
TOMMY: Okay. (He returned a few minutes later) Yes, I saw the sky.
TEACHER: Did you see God?
TOMMY: No.
TEACHER: That's my point. We can't see God because he isn't there. He doesn't exist.

A little girl spoke up and wanted to ask the boy some questions. The teacher agreed and the little girl asked the boy: Tommy, do you see the tree outside?

TOMMY: Yes.
LITTLE GIRL: Tommy do you see the grass outside?
TOMMY: Yessssss (getting tired of the questions by this time).
LITTLE GIRL: Did you see the sky?
TOMMY: Yessssss
LITTLE GIRL: Tommy, do you see the teacher?
TOMMY: Yes
LITTLE GIRL: Do you see her brain?
TOMMY: No
LITTLE GIRL: Then according to what we were taught today in school, she must not have one!

"FOR WE WALK BY FAITH, NOT BY SIGHT"

Sunday, August 23, 2009

The world is dying, NOBODY SEEMS TO CARE

The world is at the edge of collapse. But nobody seems to be aware of this.
Let me rephrase,

The world is dying, NOBODY SEEMS TO CARE.

Listening to the radio, BFM 89.9.
A recent research states a horrible truth.
Its something you do everyday to desolate earth, every minute, every second.

5 years ago, scientists discover that about 15% of ice in the north pole has melted.
NOW, latest research shows that ABOUT 50%,

50%

of the ice in north pole has already melted.

In earlier years, you cant hardly find any flooding.
Now, even Johor floods, usually rapid floods.
The majestic sights of ice glaciers, now vanished.
Tsunamis, Earthquakes, natural disasters are becoming frequent.

These are facts everybody knows, now whats the solution.
You alone, you are powerless.
You, as a group, is also powerless.

The only savior of earth is each and every country's government.
If only the governments would concentrate on recovering the earth,
not on buildings, more buildings, MORE BUILDINGS, HIGHER BUILDINGS.

One person, or an organization's effort, to advise, is good.
An order from the government, is better.

If they would control the production of vehicles,
they would have more energy conserved.

Control the use of plastic made items, force recycling.
they would have controlled pollution very well.

Issue fines on people who do harm to the environment,
Restricting people, company, organizations, on waste disposal control.
they would not have been spending that much money to recover from damages done.


But we know, this is not going to happen.
The world would rather use their power to win in politics, in wars, in technology.

Human race has already forgotten the world allows our existence,
in return of the preservation of the environment.

so no matter how many movies you made to raise awareness

THE DAY AFTER TOMORROW
AN INCONVENIENT TRUTH
2012

if nothing is being done, rapidly, dramatically.
if nothing is done RIGHT NOW.

WE WILL PERISH
sooner than you think

Monday, August 10, 2009

无谓的文章

最近开始工作,发现了一些东西。

原来,一个人有了工作,大致上已经是把自己的梦想放弃了一半。
大多数人,有了工作,

学会了忍气吞声,
如何和上司打好关系。

因为要学会理财,
如何省钱,如何吝啬。
如何放弃一些时间,换回一点点金钱,
一点做人的尊严。

梦想要有一堂名贵的跑车,
突然觉得车好像只是拿来代步。

要有一间豪华大宅,
突然觉得有房子住,舒服就好。

想要过富贵生活,
想想,生活过得开心就好。

眼看想要得就在眼前,
大胆的花一笔钱,
得到了,
却不知为什么,
竟然心痛??

人注定是被金钱捆绑的,
因为人是怕死的。
因此而愿意很多宝贵的时间,娱乐,
努力保住自己的工作。

所以想玩,
最后还是把工作优先!

而最高境界,
骗自己,其实你很爱自己的工作,工作就是游戏!

但这乐观的好处是,
你每天都好像很快乐。

但,你能摆脱这一切吗?
真正的或在这世界上!
真正的

-- 享受人生 --


祝福你

Sunday, July 19, 2009

A King's Depature


A feed from " Lin Hai Feng" Blog.
Some words for the King.
RIP Michael





集体谋杀!迈克杰克逊之死。

有人死了。
不是迈克杰克逊,他不会死。

一颗来自天外的星星,带着耀眼的光芒,瞬间陨落!消失在天际。
一缕青烟,久久不能散去,袅绕着。

就这么死去!来不及呼救,来不及道别。活着的时候,如此热闹,死的的时候,如此的孤独。原本准备再度掀起乐坛的巨浪,即将登场,却就这样蓦然谢幕!
整个30年,你占据了人们的记忆。如魅如妖,如一个千年的精灵。天际之间,至今仍回荡着你似男非男,似女非女的,飞越心底深谷的、令人悸动的声音。脑海,依然是你如梦似幻的曼舞晃动的画面。

你是被谋杀的。许多人参与了这一场惊人的谋杀!你不是死于疾病,不是死于癌症,不是死于心脏病,这是杀你的人的狡辩。你死于你的与众不同,死于你的令人窒息的才华,死于你那仅属于天外的气质,死于你特立独行的品性。

没有人可以超越你的成就。那种辉煌与疯狂,那种激情与酷炫,那种忘我的艺术。你不是歌星,不是舞星,你是一个神!一个穿梭在时空里,不灭的神!

忍不住为你的死,哭泣。他们集体谋杀了你,然后为你举行葬礼!你卓越的才华让他们妒嫉。他们依靠嘲笑你、窥探你、娱乐他们的生活。你为这个时代奉献了伟大的艺术,而这个世界还给你最恶毒的攻击。

你是上天的宠儿么?否则如何光芒四射,星光照耀世界30年?而你为何如此孤独而无助,如此迷茫而寂寞,谁在乎你的心境?谁又为你的出类拔萃真心喝彩?

没有人象你一样,将激情演绎得如此迷离、高雅、而又慌乱!没有人像你这样热爱音乐,既能够自己作词、作曲,还能够编导舞台、灯光与场景,更画了一手让你惊叹的画!你像是在那属于你的时空里独自飘荡,人们对你的迷恋,也变得如此混乱。

盯着屏幕间的噩耗,一而再地为你哭泣。涌起的泪水,无法抑制。感叹你不世出的才华,也感叹世俗的冰霜。你就这样在嘲讽、咒骂、拥戴和迷恋中迷失,在一次次的“道德飚车”中重伤,消失得无影无踪。

他们明知道你的才华,注定来自你的孤独与寂寞,注定来自某种疯狂与怪诞,注定来自与众不同的生命独特的音响,却不能够在欣赏你杰出的表演的同时,欣赏你的阴暗。你卓然不同的阴暗,是你自己的天堂,可是他们偏要将它埋葬,也就连你,一同埋葬。你一边为人们贡献巨大的、绝世的激情与欢乐,一边承受来自人们的压力和责难!你如此委屈而紧张地躲避着、创造着、伤痛着。这就是你的死因!有很多人都应该负责。人们需要奇绝的创造,却缺乏对奇才的包容!

人们嘲笑你的整容,却也惊叹你的勇气。我一直认为那次整容是你的杰作,是你刻录在人们心中的妖媚,是你另类不群的美。失败的不是你,而是医生的龌龊,他们在收完钱之后,露出丑恶的面容,他们没有为这件失败的艺术品负责,而是归结于你的怪癖。他们没有告诉公众,没有医生的承诺,谁会去如此冒险?然后,他们顺便卖了很多药品给你,说是为了维护形象的必须,最后,这些药物,又成了伤害你的高级组合。

迈克杰克逊,代表了一个时代。一个新旧交替,一个和平而混乱的时代。他的身上,流着和我们一样的血,一样的激情和迷茫,一样的狂热和寂寞。如今,该为谁哭泣,该为谁缅怀而祭奠?

还有一些专业杀手,他们合谋骗走你的钱,却留下一份毒药。他们等你死于心脏病发作后,才不知羞耻地说出真相:“体检,其实检查不出心脏病的前兆。”他们又说你是癌症,用他们专业的权势,诱骗你定期打杜冷丁,再说你死因不明。他们诱骗你长期服药,再说你滥用药物!。他们杀死你,再说你因为变态而死!他们明知道你需要的唯一的药物就是快乐,就是尊重,但是他们不开给你这个真正需要的配方,他们冷冷地看着你痛苦和孤单,却没有给你指出道路。

让我哭的,不仅是你的逝去,更是对生命的哀叹。你如此给了人们前所未有的激情,却留给自己孤独的死亡。

举世都在为你哀悼。证明你惊人的影响。证明人们多么需要娱乐你,包括你的死亡。你连死亡都可以贡献GDP,你连死亡都可以贡献娱乐,而你,一无所有。你甚至从来没有打算拥有,因为你是全世界捐款最多的人,自己却债务重重,无人资助!你甚至从来没有准备成为巨星,因为你一直选择在夜空里,独自叹息。你唯一的爱,想要奉献给孩子,他们却说你是恋童癖!唯一让你活下来的,是你对演绎生命激情的艺术疯狂,是对生命课题的炙热的探求,而今,这一份感觉也已经泯灭,你只能够从星空里坠落,化为尘土!

阳光森林所有成员,明天为你停止所有娱乐,一起为你祈祷。你是值得人们注目的伟大人物,你的贡献,让无数的人时刻体验激情的语言和对生命的省思与热爱,你如同精灵一般时刻浮现在每一个舞台。
明天,全体阳光森林的成员一起禁食一天,为这位带给我们欢乐,带给我们记忆,陪伴我们成长,带给我们年轻的骚动的巨星,祭奠、默哀。

星空里,少了一份光芒。记忆里,多了一份惆怅。迈克杰克逊,原你居住在自己的天堂!永远星光灿烂!

Saturday, February 28, 2009

2009年二月

曾经我对自己说,
对爱情要非常的潇洒。

2009年二月,
我让自己失望了,我办不到。
原来我非常看重自己的感情生活。

实际上,什么都没发生。
但不知怎么,我竟体会到,
人在你身边,感觉像离你一千里,一万里般。
抱着,
竟然让我觉得是对我的一种讽刺。
让我觉得,我肯定会失去她。

这次的拥抱,像是离别的祝福。
只是这份祝福,我还给不起。
我没那么成熟。

也许那么久以来,
我只是一厢情愿,是我一直不肯放弃这段感情。
所以,问题总是似乎解决不了,一直围绕我们。
因为开始已经是错误。
这是怎么都不能解决的问题。

也许现在,
我真的应该学习放下,给自己从新再来的机会。
可能别人,已经向往新的感情生活。

但我懂,我还是会找各种理由,
迁就不够多,
体谅不够多,
了解不够多,
去逃避。

表面上的关系还是存在的,
但我的心灵伴侣,
已经离我而去了。

2009年二月,
我会学习慢慢放下,
要掉多少眼泪不重要,
掉多少,教训就多深。
这样,
事情发生了,
我才能有心理准备应付。

我可以很潇洒。

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Clouds, Skies and Love

I was looking through the papers..
there were these words..

Clouds flown into my life,
Not to bring rain, nor usher storms,
only to bring colors to my sunset sky.
*edited

As I'm figuring out this message,
I found that it somehow interprets my voice.

That there are things you just cant overcome,
some pressure you cant relieve,
some feelings you cant get rid...

In the end,
you'll just have to bare with it, as far as it goes,
or,
you can paint your life,
With all the love you have.

For your loved ones,
for they are always, and always beside you,
to paint your gloomy skies with you.

You are not alone

Make life beautiful, in every perspective.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Years In Time and Days Out Of It

Its past mid night, my eyes were still wide open. Staring at the ceiling, which turned from plain black to somehow grayish, I’m starting to wonder that it wasn’t insomnia that kept me awake for all these time. I figure that I needed music, but music seems so sad to me, rather than being sentimental. Such a gloomy night, as if the only emotion I can feel right now is sorrow. I miss the optimistic mind of mine; I just couldn’t bring it back. Luckily the rain was by my side with his soothing melody.

“Hey is your girlfriend still “locked up”?”my mother asked me, earlier when I finished my shower.

“Yeah, her final paper is coming on soon.”

“Well, final or not, looks like someone’s going to lose his lover if this continues.”

A mother knows her son; she knows I’m having a hard time dealing with my relationship. It’s been three years, me and her, but I couldn’t tolerate a few weeks not seeing her, how ironic. Well, maybe she’s just a few blocks away, and she’s not by my side. I know I sound selfish, now that she’s sitting for her last piece of exam paper, I could have been more tolerable? That was what is in my mind for the last couple of weeks, and what kept me awake tonight.

“Am I too selfish? Or is it her attitude and mine just doesn’t match?” I thought to myself.

“24-7, not one minute for me when I’m only few walk away? Only one message at night to tell me you’re going to bed, every single day? Guess it would be more than sitting for a piece of exam paper? Would it?”

“Why is it that every time we’re apart, I’m the one whining and complaining and she’s not?”

“Doesn’t she miss me at all? If she does, why am I not feeling it?”

I felt so guilty every time I think like this. It’s like I’m giving her only problems and complaints, and not supporting her at times in need. I recognize this feeling; I’ve had it millions of times before, only stronger this time. We would have a quarrel when I have this feeling, but everything’s alright this time. Guess I’m a gun out of bullet. I have no intention to bring up this matter to her, because I think it’s pointless to argue over such a thing anymore. Apparently my feelings to her are fading, vice versa.

I know that this is the last time she’ll make me feel this way, because I don’t feel as sad anymore. I’m out of tears, out of emotions, out of expectation, out of hope, out of love. I may not be a veteran in relationship, or a professional in love, but I certainly know when I feel exhausted, and when is the right time to let go a relationship. I can’t tolerate anymore, so let me be selfish. But she’s my first, and the first cut is the deepest. My life may be filled with grief if I were to lose her, but yes, I will still do it, for her best and mine.

If warfare reduced Las Vegas to ashes, there will be nothing left but beautiful memories of you and him. The good times and bad times, the joy and sorrow, the tears and the laughter with him end here. And when the pale moonlight shines upon the ground, you can only mesmerize the beauty of it, and let all of your feelings burst, and cry at the top of your voice. You can do nothing about it. Neither can you fix it, nor can undo it.

You can only rebuild.

Monday, November 3, 2008

世界金融风暴,与年轻人有关系吗?

众所周知,现在全世界正在面临金融风暴。美国,英国等强国的经济急速下滑,世界经济已经迈向谷底。日本,中国,美国的情况已经是超乎想象。搞地产的,股票投资等人士已经感到那股压力的逼迫。那,这些跟我们年轻一辈的人,究竟有没有关系呢?

金融风暴是经济的需要。潮起必须潮落。落就得落到底,才有力量可以反弹。这样的落,不是经济战略,而是经济规律。股票什么时候见底,很简单,如果你身边的富豪还没开始变卖家产,包括汽车和房子,如果你还没有看到有人因为股票的问题、地产的问题而跳楼,那么,股票就还没有见底。开开玩笑,但你懂我的意思啦。这就是规律。望望你身边的朋友是否已经买好锁头,准备深深锁紧自己的眉头?

既然是规律,那么它一定会重演,这么,金融风暴跟每个人,都有关系。也因为它是规律,规律出现了问题,肯定也有解决的方案。问题在于每个金融风暴就像冰河世纪一样,要隔一段时间才发生,所以多数人都没认真看看自己的库存。看看自己拥有什么?缺乏什么?这才成了威胁。要在风暴里受益还是亏损,就要看看自己当初下了多少功夫保护自己。遇难了,有资产变卖还得了,只靠那份死薪水的呢?难道就要在街边叫卖吗?

马来西亚的建筑,机会全部是12年前建造的,包括高速公路、高楼、体育馆。12年来,这里再也没有什么新的建设。1997年的金融风暴,没有像摧毁泰国那样打击马来西亚,却也使得这个国家12年没有丝毫进步。而今,新的金融危机正在威胁所有依靠欧美国家的经济体,马来西亚又要接受新的挑战。而新加坡已经面临恐慌,地产正在大幅度下跌。

年轻人,准备好了吗?

*注:今年以来,日本和美国股市跌幅达35%至45%,市值总额也急剧萎缩。如果将欧洲、新兴市场和金融机构的损失也包括在内,今年全球金融资产损失高达27万亿美元。上周五可谓是全球股市最难熬的一个交易日,亚洲股市一度跌停、欧洲股市盘中暴跌、道指则连续第八天收低。
这个蒸发的数值,相当于一个小型国家全年总产值的50倍,也就是相当于将那些小国家50年的存款全部消费完。( 林海峰老师论文中的剪接)

Thursday, October 16, 2008

心的距离——遥远的人生

**转载于 blog.sina.come/forestsun

**林老师的华文。。。 欣赏吧!

遥远的距离

女孩离开温暖的家,寻找,一种声音。
分别的时刻,带着疼痛的心。离开家人,离开习惯了的,平庸的生活。

是什么力量,让人们离开父母,让妻子离开丈夫,让丈夫背井离乡?让距离,如此遥远?

这样的故事,每天都在上演。分别,似乎是为了更好地追求,但是距离,却在分别中拉开。
如果你不能够清晰地知道,那个离家的真实动机,那么,距离,就不只是遥远。

并不是为了追求。实际上,人类并没有多少真正的理想。那种驱使你决定远走他乡的力量,并不是因为贪图享乐,而是,人们无法忍受平庸的痛苦。

逃离痛苦的力量,永远大于追求幸福。

有一种痛苦,是没有痛的感觉的,甚至很舒服,如同毒品上瘾,并不痛,只有那些还保持着生命的灵性的人,才能够觉察出这样的毒瘾,并努力摆脱。当那个生命努力地挣脱传统,寻找生命中,上天给予自己的,那一份独特,需要一股决然的勇气!

接受平庸的温暖,让自己像个瘾君子那样。沉迷于每天上班、下班、吃饭、睡觉,枯燥单调的生活方式。是很容易的,也是全民化的。有时候,你会听到来自亲人的声音:大家都这样,你为什么要不同?

你为什么要不同?好犀利的一句话,却潜藏着杀机!杀死一个与众不同的生命的杀机!当我们如此努力的从小学、到大学、到社会,不就是为了能够成为与众不同的人么?你不正是因为我的与众不同才与我相爱么?而你,又不愿意接受,我的,与众不同。

究竟人们害怕什么?心的距离有多远?人性的弱点,该如何去面对?

只有少数的人,能够从这样的距离中,找到生命的呼吸,只有少数人,可以彼此接受距离,并通过这个距离,推动彼此的成长,共同摆脱平庸,享受与众不同的阳光。从而,使得亲情更加美好,使得空间的距离变成心的牢固链接。

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

金钱虽可贵,爱情价更高;若为自由故,两者皆可抛。

重温我一些旧文章,和位朋友谈起了其中一篇- 穿越时空。谈起了我的目标,就是拥有自由。简单来说,自由不是什么都不用做,而是什么都可以做。本人认为,如果一个生命失去了自由,那这生命并没有带来任何意义。 必竟:


金钱虽可贵,爱情价更高;
若为自由故,两者皆可抛。


我那位朋友认同我的论点,但,对他来说,这些所谓美满,快乐的生活,是乎完全不存在。所以,我决定写这篇文章发表我的意见。眼见为评,我认为,多数人不相信一件事的原因是因为他没见过,没听过。是我从事安利事业的原故,我看了无数成功者的生活方式,并了解他们成功的经历。强调下,我所说的成功者并非只是很有钱,他们的生活已经摆脱了烦恼,可以说是无忧无虑。如果你没去了解,这些人路过你,你都当他是个不起眼的人。


其实要和他们一样非常简单。有空看看 "穷爸爸,富爸爸" 这本书。这本书要表达的是,富有和有钱的分别。你在任何行业都可以很有钱,但,真正看懂钱,才能很富有。今天,你可以是个大公司的总裁,的确你很有钱,但你得付出很多的代价。 所以你也不算很有钱。但如果你有一百间房子出租,你和那为总裁的收入是一样的,但代价你不必再给了,这才算有钱。当然,要拥有一百间洋房出租是非常不简单,但只要你仔细看看,身边就有很多机会获得同样的结果。我在这就不多说了。

摆脱金钱问题,只是第一步,没了这第一步,你什么都别想了。剩下的,等有钱再说吧!
当然,记住,只要是钱的问题,那一定不是问题。而你种种烦恼,其实追根究底,还是钱的问题。那你得时时刻刻叮咛自己,人生,你的未来是乐观的,如果你现在放弃了自己,你等于把自己一生放弃了。说到底,我还是站在我自己的立场 : 成功不是说明你多有钱,多出名;而是你对你付出所拥有的满足感。详文在博文 - Define Success 里。

祝福你。

Saturday, July 5, 2008

Define Success

[ Qouted from my previous blog ]

Few months back i've been defining " Success ". Actually what meaning does success carry? Success means different things to different person. To me that time, success means when you can tell your parents :" dad, mom, you can rest now, leave everything behind to me, i can take care of the family."

Some agree with me, some of them teased me. They teased because they cannot believe these words are actually coming out of my mouth! Yes, being ambitious and doing nothing to prove is bullshit. I agree with them. Before i can prove myself that i can do that, Success is nowhere near me.

Success is not a matter of money, fame or fortune;
rather its a representation of one's appreciation
.

I finally made a conclusion with the words above. Do you guys agree with me? But dont misunderstand the meaning of "appreciation" i carry. I dont mean that if you are satisfied in everything you do, you are successful; to me that is an insult to the word success. The "appreciation" i mean is when you give your best to be the best you can be, with no regrets even if you fail.

To me, one can only persue "appreciation" after he/she already have the basic standards in life. Means when he's free economically, free emotionally and free to do anything, then only he can start to ask for more to appreciate. Else, how can he/she ask for more to persue when he cant even giv the best to his family? to himself?

However, these are only my thoughts, they're not words from a successful person. :-P But i think its nothing wrong to point out my opinion =) So feel free to comment me.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

目标不被耕耘, 就是玩笑

有目标的人, 对某些人来说, 是敬而远之的, 也有是崇拜的, 也有赞扬的. 但真相好像这社会都对有目标的人挺反感似的. 这一路来, 我加入安利之后, 都不断地设定人生目标. 因为, 做安利要成功, 目标就得非常明确. 其中几个好比:在25岁之前已经经济独立, 今年里拥有自己的一部车, 要让父母双双推出工作岗位等等... 有目标, 就到处嚷嚷嗓嗓, 但却不觉得害怕做不到, 结果会是怎样, 会遭别人怎样的看法.

无聊, 越想越无聊. 其实我那时定下的, 不是目标, 而是玩笑. 目标, 是需要经营的, 我却没尽力而为. 玩笑, 不必认真的, 我却认认真真把玩笑开完了. 现在, 别人还没把我看扁, 我已经觉得我自己薄如白字. 但, 我顿悟了. 我车了几个非常响亮的大炮!
想回去, 目标下太快, 就是太轻率. 炸药放了, 点了火, 还没来得及避, 就被大炮炸伤了. 伤了, 就学会看懂自己. 现在还有几颗炸药放了, 5-10年时间让我避, 懂了, 就尽全力去避, 换回来, 就不再是伤痛, 而是无比荣耀!

但,
我想怎样, 不必向人来交代; 也不管别人怎么来看待;
所有一切, 大小事情看不开; 只是让你没头没脑袋.
有了目标, 努力实践是最快; 最后一定得到别人的青睐.

有梦就去追, 成功就在前头等着你!
谢谢妈妈

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

钱, 真的可以解决很问题-续

孩子出生要钱,
抚养孩子长大要钱,
奶粉要钱, 食物要钱,
小学要钱, 中学要钱, 大学要钱,
拍拖要钱, 结婚要钱,
汽车要钱, 房子要钱,
孝顺父母要钱, 孝顺岳父岳母要钱,
电风扇要钱, 冷气机要钱, 石油要钱, 什么都是钱.


连去世, 都要钱!!!

如今, 对于一些家境有困难的朋友, 这真是一个又可恨, 又可笑, 又让你无可奈何的事情. 连这等事, 都是挑战! 尤其是华人, 又墓碑, 又法会, 又葬礼, 又坟地.
这真是不少钱. 葬身自处得很小心选, 免得下一代倒霉, 要风水, 就要大笔钱... 真是矛盾, 花了那么大笔钱, 我觉得其实已经倒霉了! 哈哈.. 不过这笔钱, 能花, 是在值得不过! 只是连......

殡葬费 也调涨?? 部分已起价 . 部分仍观望
星洲日报/大都会 2008.06.20

Sunday, June 22, 2008

钱, 真的可以解决很多问题

讨论什么问题都好, 只要谈到钱, 和任何人都谈的来! 因为钱, 是必需品, 也就是说, 钱是生活的基础. 注意, 我是说生活, 并不是生命. 因为生命的创造, 钱是扯不上关系的.

有钱, 不一定买到快乐,
没钱, 肯定买不到快乐;
有钱, 不一定快乐,
没钱, 通常都不快乐.

我这么说, 肯定会引起不同人的看法. 尤其会有人看不起我, 攻击我的看法. 说什么"金钱奴隶"啊, "钱脸"啊. 我个人认为, 不认同我的看法的人, 不是在扮清高, 就一定是天真!!

其实, 幸福的生活, 就是高素质的生活方式. 生活得很舒服, 享受科技, 享受智慧, 享受财富. 美好的婚姻, 需要良好的经济来源. "贫穷夫妻白日哀" 说明了一切. 如果你不能给你爱人一个舒服, 良好的生活环境, 你凭什么说钱不重要? 其实你根本没资格说话了! 美满的家庭, 也需要一样的条件, 你也绝对没资格让家人过的不好. 认真的思考吧.

钱, 不但可以给你物质上的享受, 更可以给你精神上的享受!!

有钱, 不一定要买大车大房子. 因为大车大房子真的不一定带来快乐. 但, 有钱, 其实你已经放下心中很大的负担. 你的家人, 孩子, 需要的不只是钱买到的东西. 他们更需要爱, 更需要关怀. 但, 试问你, 如果你面临经济困难, 你能给多少爱和关怀呢? 我觉得要你笑都不容易了.


有钱, 其实让是你能够付出更多的爱与关怀的门扇.


往后我会谈到"Money is the root of all evil"的话题, 喜欢的话, 请你常回来看看我的文章. 我希望我的部落格能给你一些启示. 谢谢.

Friday, June 20, 2008

谁是敌人?

转载于 : 自然之子-林海峰新浪博客

谁是敌人?疾病的到来,如同一场战争,一场以生命做赌注的战争。赢者,将获得健康,输者,将失去生命,失去爱人,失去温馨的家庭,失去财富以及这一生,你所努力赢得的一切!应该将逆转和克服疾病带来的危险过程看成战争。

在任何战争中,你首先需要认清谁是敌人,当你在恐惧中举起武器扫射的时候,小心,你可能对准的是你自己的军队!一排子弹打过去,自己人倒了一片在地上!这不是笑话,当你吃进抗生素,当你开始化疗,当你做手术的时候,武器,正对准你的军队:你的免疫系统、消化系统、修复系统,成为炮灰!当敌人来到门口,或更糟糕的是敌人走进家门,重要的就是动员所有可以利用的力量和武器,而不是首先邀请外国军队。那就是我们为什么宣传对主要敌人从各个方面加以痛击的原因,整体自然疗法的意思,就是发动全部的身体潜力,从各个不同的角度,痛击敌人!
例如,预防心脏病所需要共同使用的 10种方法,特别是对那些有高发病危险的人群。但如果战胜疾病,延长生命和增强活力是战争的话,谁是敌人呢?

第一位敌人首先是我们自己。很少人相信自己每天正在生产和制造疾病。对了,你正是疾病的积极制造商!
当然,多数人自有在临床疾病出现后才开始关注健康问题的,而且,这个时候,多数人都在医生的指导下,关注如何改变指标或者症状,而不是建立真正的康复计划。
而大多数人在明显的症状出现前,几乎都不愿意及时关注提高健康水平和预防疾病。更不幸的是,医学界也是在疾病出现症状后(症状—控制医学)才开始检查和诊断,所以大多数人能够从医学界获得的健康指导是很有限的。你不应该等待别人来告诉你通往健康的道路,唯一能够对你健康负责的只有你自己。

第二位敌人是疾病。
记住,是疾病,而不是身体的反应。身体对疾病做出的反应,往往被当作敌人,这些反应,又叫做症状!实际上,是身体拉响的警报,以及投入战争的方式。医药的介入,通常,消除了症状,也就是,解除了身体的武装!这才是真正可笑的。我经常嘲笑某些医生当了敌人的卧底!
在 150年前,人类预期寿命是 37岁。能够让我们延长寿命的原因,就是因为食物的来源丰富。如果我们希望尽可能保持活力,就不能简单地依赖生物进化赋予我们的自然规律,而是主动创造对身体有利的条件。

第三位敌人是越来越多的舆论的鼓噪。
它反对任何延长寿命的努力,认为是违反了人类基本的本性。作家弗朗西斯·福山就认为,将人类寿命突破目前的 80来岁的研究是不道德的。对如干细胞等生物研究的反对之声耽误了很多疾病治疗方法的重要研究。注意,我们不是将这些思想家本人看作是我们的对手,而是他们的倒退观点。人类物种的核心是扩展和扩大我们的局限。最终,这些鼓噪只会在技术革新的洪流中被大浪淘沙,随进步的潮流而被遗忘。但是,哪怕是很少的耽误也会导致成百上千人的痛苦和死亡。

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Malaysians

It was just a month before the gov promises that the fuel price will remain, before September, at RM1.92. A while later, suddenly the nation's petrol stations are packed with vehicles, from the tiny Perodua Kancil to proud Mercedes, BMW; All in queue, waiting for long long time, just to save that few ringgit of petrol. Apparently the fuel price went up RM0.78 to RM2.70 now. It started a few arguements. But soon the gov came up with a BRILLIANT solution, a cash rebate of RM625/year to vehicles under 1999cc. I was thinking that people would be upset that the gov came up with such solution to this problem. But reality proved me wrong, suprisingly, people are pleased with that amount of money payed to them each year; This is a way of subsidary also, says them. This is only the fuel went up RM0.78, what will happen if the gov really is to launch the 0% subsidary plan? Can you not consider the rate of inflation? Can you not consider the rising expenses and limited income? I believe most of the people will feel pressured, unless for those who have extra income to support.

The first "promise" is easily broken, amazingly the gov still made another, saying the fuel price will again remain, until April next year. Now, can you believe that? Its up to you. To me, its another sick joke. Maybe the RM625 cash rebate will increase to RM1250 if the fuel price was to double? To cover all those extra expenses? To cover the dramatic inflation? But i bet many will still be happy, rather, they will be extremely excited and grateful to the gov??

The rate of inflation is too fast for us to catch up, there will be a big impact if fuel price was to increase this fast. You can see it in other countries also. So, as an oil-producing country, I think Malaysia is able to control the fuel price at a affordable price. This way, maybe Malaysian citizens can be more diligent to be financially-independant. Then Malaysia's economic status would be better, hopefully. But at this rate, I hope MYR will still be more valueble than the Indonesian Ruppiah. The parliament is a mess, I doubt the cost the gov tried so hard to save, is really going to bring Malaysia to a higher level, even though many economicans suggests that the fuel subsidising plan is holding Malaysia back.

Still, lets hope for the best, we are Malaysians anyway. Be economically-independant, financially-free, let nothing be a burden to you, then contribute to the country. Doing alone is a lot of work, gather your friends, have a common vision, make break throughs. All the best!

Malaysia boleh... MALAYSIAN BOLEH ! MALAYSIAN BOLEH ! That would be more suitable =)

逃避


有关这方面的话题, 我想大半人讨论起来都会有种不舒服的感觉, 这是我分享后得来的结论. 谈起来, 大多数人都会皱起眉头, 好像人家欠了他几百万, 总让场面变得僵硬, 紧张.

其实, 这是因为这些人从没想过这些问题, 说得难听, 确确实实很少人真正有规划人生. 突然间觉得要为人生奋斗时, 有百般不愿意, 产生了种种压力. 事实上生活不好的人, 还是不愿意改进自己的生活, 小小的涨价都可以给你很大的影响. 而人们却一直在逃避...

逃避的人,
钱永远不够用, 老板起薪 RM100 说太少, 蛋涨价 RM1 说太多.
时间也不够用, 休息时间半小时说太短, 加班十分钟说要 OT 加薪.
人情搞不好, 送小礼给人却盼大礼会来; 自己送礼能减则减, 别人小礼说孤寒.

人, 就是缺了个环境,
让你更积极,
让你觉得你可以,
让你有梦想, 敢梦敢想,

要你懂得给予的快乐多过接纳的快乐,
要你懂得付出, 享受付出的快感,
要你分享, 多过自享其乐.

豁出去, 学会真正生活, 活出生命的奇迹, 生命的光彩!

Monday, June 16, 2008

燃油上涨, 通膨, 这些还得提醒吗?

燃油上涨, 通膨, 这些还得提醒吗?

当初我有一回都经常做这方面的提醒, 换来的只是一些无聊的回应. 还有些人仍然相信和依赖所谓的政府. 有时听多了还觉得挺有道理的. 哈哈. 但现在已经变成事实了吧, 但还是有人坚持自己的立场???

哎呀, 燃油一定涨的啦! 燃油涨, 物价一定也涨嘛, 还需要你提醒??

我不是要提醒这种人, 我要狠狠的把他脑袋给敲醒!!! 明知道悬崖在前头, 还不断地往那里前进?? 说不定他的目的就是要跳下去吧!!

让我懊恼的是, 我只能在这个没人肯花时间读的布落格上痛快的透露心里话. 大半人觉得我做安利
所以我这么说. 到了这个时候你们还是这么认为?? 幼稚... 无聊... 我个人认为这是因为有些人还不懂得这些对有责任的人的负担, 他们完全不能体会的.

有时有些话说出口, 尤其是跟你立场有差异的, 你肯定觉得不是味道, 都觉得是些没用的废话. 毕竟, 忠言逆耳. 听懂这句话吧, 这些话会给你带来好处的.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Life is but a show on stage ^^

I dont care whether life is a show, a drama, a movie, a dream or whatever..

If it's a show, it'll be a great show;
If it's a drama, it'll be the best drama ever;
If it's a movie, it'll be the most unforgettable movie;
If it's a dream, why not make it the sweetest dream?

It's a great metaphore. But dont try to understand it. LOL u can only understand it your way.
Different people have different script, making different dreams, difference is amazing..

But one thing is in common, to achieve something, that is the FIRST STEP.
Babies had it, now they can walk;
Einstein had it, now we know the law of relativity;
Bill Gates had it, now you have Microsoft.


See that? One day i will take the stairs, onto my own STAGE. To let you'll know im the script writer, im the director, im the pop star; Im ME.

This is my stage, i can do whatever i like with it !! Sleep, Sit, Lie down, Eat, Have fun? Whatever. Its a really big stage. Next time after big seminars, you should go up there, alone. Feels Good.

There are 3.8k people. Sometimes 18k people. See this? If you were telling your story to this many ppl, would it be GREAT??? This is only 1/5 row of seats of the entire hall. There were 5 of them.

Yea... When i see this i feel like if i cant wait to go on stage, where everyone's clappin for me.. I want it NOW!! haha... Hope the best for me.. ^^

Friday, May 9, 2008

什么最累?

哎呀,
工作,累啊!
生活忙,累啊!
老板骂了,累啊!
钱不够用了,累啊!
烦恼没完没了,累啊!

站着会累,坐着会累,躺着也会累,那么什么不会累??
看钱不会累;
不对啊,钱多了也满累的。
玩耍不会累;
不对啊,玩久了,很累的。
风流肯定不累吧!
其实风流最累,因为要办很多手续啊。哈哈,开个玩笑。

打工很累的,做给老板,又不是做给自己。
做生意很累的,干了20年,还得干;但总比打工好吧,打了20年,要打都不能打了!!
过生活,没有发自内心的欢喜,是很累的;
你做不到,因为负担太大了,你还要赚钱供车,供屋,养家。
说到底,干什么都很累,但,有东西是不累的。

原来,创造奇迹,不会累的。
原来,给人欢喜,不会累的。
原来,健康一生,不会累的。

生命,要么平平淡淡,要么非常精彩。别白过了。

感谢林海峰老师的启示。